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Guided practice · 21 days · 15 min a day · ₹2,100₹3,000· Offer ends 31 Oct

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21-Day Peace Ritual

Twenty-one days with Shiva: water poured slowly on the Shivling, Om Namah Shivaya on a rudraksha mala, five minutes of stillness, and one thing let go each day.

The spirit of this practiceWater poured on the Shivling is a letting go. The spirit of this practice is to offer up what you hold too tightly, and to sit for a few minutes with nothing to prove.

Your progress is saved to your account. Your notebook lines stay on this phone only. A missed day never resets the count.

Shiva is the still centre of the tradition: the yogi on Kailash, the one who holds poison in his throat without being disturbed by it. Peace, in this practice, isn't the absence of trouble. It's the ability to sit with it quietly.

Each day has the same fifteen minutes: water poured slowly on the Shivling, the five-syllable mantra on a rudraksha mala, and five minutes of simply sitting. Then one small act that removes a source of noise from your life: a notification turned off, a drawer cleared, a grudge put down. It is a practice, not a cure; if you are struggling, please also talk to someone you trust or a professional.

A reminder every day, in your own calendar

The same time each day is most of the practice. Choose yours; the reminder repeats for 21 days and opens today's step.

The daily routine

About 15 minutes, the same every day.

  1. 1

    Sit down

    On the aasan, at the same time every day, morning or evening. Phone on silent and out of reach.

  2. 2

    Light the lamp

    One wick. Three slow breaths, each out-breath longer than the in-breath.

  3. 3

    Pour the water

    Pour water from the lota over the Shivling in the slowest stream you can, for about a minute. Watch only the water. On a picture, sprinkle water with a flower.

  4. 4

    The mantra

    Om Namah Shivaya, 108 times on the rudraksha mala. Slowly; the pace is the practice.

  5. 5

    Five minutes of stillness

    Put the mala down. Sit with eyes closed, counting breaths from one to ten and starting again. When the mind wanders, begin again at one.

  6. 6

    Write one line

    In the notebook: the one thing you let go of today, or will.

Day by day

01Begin

Say the sankalp with water in your palm and pour it on the Shivling. Write the three things that most disturb your peace right now. Just name them.

02The first hourOpens day by day once you begin
03A quiet walkOpens day by day once you begin
04One drawerOpens day by day once you begin
05A small repairOpens day by day once you begin
06One meal in silenceOpens day by day once you begin
07MondayOpens day by day once you begin
08Fewer interruptionsOpens day by day once you begin
09Sleep earlierOpens day by day once you begin
10Listen fullyOpens day by day once you begin
11Worries on paperOpens day by day once you begin
12Forgive, privatelyOpens day by day once you begin
13OutdoorsOpens day by day once you begin
14Second MondayOpens day by day once you begin
15No complaintsOpens day by day once you begin
16A quiet kindnessOpens day by day once you begin
17A day without newsOpens day by day once you begin
18Longer stillnessOpens day by day once you begin
19Thank your bodyOpens day by day once you begin
20Read the notebookOpens day by day once you begin
21CloseOpens day by day once you begin

Closing, on the last day

  1. Abhishek. Water, then milk, then water again, poured slowly while chanting Om Namah Shivaya. Offer bel leaves and a white flower.
  2. Sit. Fifteen minutes of stillness, the longest of the twenty-one days.
  3. Continue or rest. Keep the five minutes of stillness each day if you can. The whole ritual can be repeated whenever you need it.

The rules

  • Same time each day. Morning or evening both work; choose one and keep it.
  • Phone out of reach for the fifteen minutes. That rule alone is half the practice.
  • Days 7 and 14 carry the Monday offering. If they don't fall on a Monday, make it on the nearest one.
  • A missed day doesn't break the ritual. Continue the count the next day.
  • Sphatik, gemstone and parad Shivlings take water only. Save the milk for stone, Narmadeshwar or metal.

Quick answers

Is this a treatment for anxiety or depression?

No. It's a devotional practice of stillness and simplification. It can sit beside proper care, but it isn't a substitute for it. If you're struggling, please speak to a doctor or counsellor.

I don't have a Shivling. Can I still do it?

Yes. Use a picture of Shiva and sprinkle water with a flower instead of pouring. Many people bring a small Shivling home once the practice has become a habit.

Morning or evening?

Either, at the same time every day. Mornings set the tone; evenings help you put the day down.

Do I need the kit?

No. A lota, a mala, a lamp and a notebook are enough. The kit has everything for 21 days with the day cards printed.

A practice of attention and order. Nothing here promises an outcome.